Good evening. I’m Rabbi Miriam Margles, co-founder of Encounter, and co-chair of our board.
Six years ago, around a Shabbat table in Bethlehem, Melissa and I began to dream up Encounter. I think we were very good at dreaming, at envisioning paths and possibilities through the conflict that did not yet exist, and yet, even in my most hopeful and luminous dreaming, I could not have imagined this moment. I could not have imagined all of these wonderful people gathered here tonight, celebrating. I could not have imagined the vision that we had of bringing everyone we knew to Bethlehem would seed the organization now respected by every political faction, every religious denomination and major North American Jewish institution. I could not have imagined that in just 6 years our fledgling Encounter would be invited to sit at the most prestigious tables in the American Jewish community, or eat latkes at the White House with the Obamas.
For those of you who are new to our work, Encounter trains Rabbis, philanthropists, Jewish professionals and leaders to help resolve the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, and to heal internal communal rifts that have arisen in its wake. Our flagship program brings hundreds of Jewish leaders on trips to Palestinian cities, where they witness Palestinian life and gain a more nuanced and complex understanding of the conflict. In our North American program, we work with Jewish leaders and institutions to cultivate strategies for more inclusive and sophisticated Israel engagement.
So imagine this: Orthodox and Reform Rabbis; lead supporters of AIPAC and J Street; national-religious settlers and anti-occupation activists all sitting down in front of the separation barrier and grappling, together, with what it means. Imagine–Federation executives and board members sleeping in Palestinian homes and staying up all night poring over maps and histories. Imagine Orthodox rabbinical students praying ma’ariv, the evening service, in the living rooms of former Palestinian militants. Imagine — Jewish leaders who had formerly only met on mutually demonizing OpEd pages — apologizing to each other for shutting the other down.
Six years ago we had an audacious and seemingly naïve dream. A mere six years, 60 trips, and 1,000 participants later, Encounter alumni include some of the most powerful leaders of Jewish life and constitute the only non-military Jewish presence that hundreds of Palestinians have come to know in their lifetimes. Encounter has grown from our dream project in Rabbinical school, to one of the most innovative and influential organizations in American Jewish life.
To celebrate Melissa and the astounding strides Encounter has made, I’ve adapted a piece of the Passover liturgy.
On the first Encounter trip, one of our Palestinian partners turned to us and said, “There haven’t been this many Jews in the West Bank since before the second Intifada.” Melissa, if we’d succeeded in bringing only our 40 friends on that very first trip six years ago,
Dayenu—it would have been enough.
If we had brought 40 of our friends on a transformative experience, but hadn’t created a new model of dialogue across conflict that emphasizes the dignity and humanity of all parties involved, saying: “look what we can be if we tap into our wisest, most empathic selves,”
Dayenu—it would have been enough.
If we’d begun reshaping the American Jewish conversation about Israel, but had made no impact on the Palestinian community and how they perceive Jews and Israelis,
Dayenu.
If we had enabled individual Jews and Palestinians to challenge their assumptions about one another, but hadn’t reached the most influential Jewish leaders in North America—Jewish philanthropists, Rabbinical school deans, ZOA and Likud board members,
Dayenu.
If we had reached the most influential leaders, but hadn’t empowered our alumni with ongoing training to impact their constituencies,
Dayenu.
And, if we had supported our alumni initiatives, but hadn’t been recognized as a key ingredient missing from advancing prospects for peace by US elected officials and major DC think tanks,
Dayenu.
Dayenu. Each and every step of the journey has been ground-breaking; each step, a powerful, unprecedented achievement. And while each advance would have been enough, Melissa, you and the Encounter team kept expanding what the dream of what could be possible. When dreaming is the activity of vague hope, it is fantasy. But what Melissa’s inspired leadership and the tireless work by Melissa, Encounter’s talented staff and board give testament to is the fact, the concrete fact, that when dreaming is visionary and when hope is a discipline, what we are able to accomplish extends exponentially beyond each imagined horizon.
Tonight we are celebrating the last hours of Yom Haatzmaut, Israel’s independence. We are celebrating Zionism as the possibility of determining our own destiny, and we are celebrating Encounter and its visionary leadership as helping to shape that destiny in the direction of our greatest hopes, rather than our fears. Melissa, with your entire being you inhabit hatikvah, hope as a discipline of human connection, and an affirmation of all that is best and deepest in all of us.
As a co-founder and on behalf of Encounter’s board, I want to tell you that it is not enough to say how proud we are of you. In the face of cynicism, anger, and attack as well as the tremendous challenges of getting an organization off the ground and truly succeeding, what you have been building in the past six years is stunning, it is sacred, and it is changing the world. You are masterful at calling others to live into the highest manifestation of their values and hopes. Tonight, we lift our gaze toward our greatest hopes: for Israelis, for Palestinians, and the Jewish people in the years ahead. Melissa, it’s hard to find the right metaphor for you, because you are, and have been, so many different things for this organization: a creator, a shepherd, a shining beacon, a marathon runner who won’t give up, a sage and a prophet.
And I am not the only one who thinks so. I have the honor of making a very exciting announcement tonight. Melissa and Encounter were nominated by Ruth Messinger and Peter Weiss for the Grinnell College Social Justice Prize for innovators under the age of 40 who, to quote, have “demonstrated leadership in their fields and who show creativity, commitment, and extraordinary accomplishment in effecting positive social change.” Out of 1,000 nominations from 66 countries, Melissa and Encounter were selected as one of three winners to receive $100,000!
We are so delighted, and overwhelmingly proud.
Would you please join me in saying the blessing of shehecheyanu in gratitude for reaching this auspicious moment.
(Rabbi Margles leads) Baruch atta adonai, eloheinu melech ha’olam, sh’hecheyanu, v’kiemanu, v’higeanu, la’zman ha’zeh
Click here to see a video of the speech.

